Wednesday March 18, 2020
Your children learn from you and learning to be a responsible person is vital to their young lives, to their growth into adulthood and to the rest of their adult lives. Children as young as two or three can start becoming involved in household responsibilities.
Very Young Children
Give them a start at helping around the house at age two or three by making the chores as easy as possible for them. Have them put away their toys, but make sure the toy box is within easy reach of little arms and hands, and has no top on it that could thwart their efforts.
Show them how to clean up after themselves by sweeping floors and cleaning up minor messes such as spilled juice. Make it more fun by giving them their own pint-sized broom, dustpan and sponge. Store their supplies in a place that is easily accessible to them.
As the children grow, so should their responsibilities. A bit past the toddler stage, kids can unload the dishwasher, set the table and move their dishes and utensils to the kitchen counter once they are excused from the table. They can also perform personal necessities such as brushing hair and teeth, picking out their clothes and eventually dressing themselves completely. They can get themselves up in the morning, make their own beds and deposit dirty laundry in the hamper. Now is the time also where they can take responsibility for feeding and caring for pets.
At this age, they can do all the things they have learned plus washing windows and mirrors, doing the laundry, sorting it by who it belongs to or where it goes and folding it. They can routinely change their sheets, make their breakfast and lunch and get themselves to school on time.
At this age, they should be getting an allowance to learn financial responsibility as well. Some experts argue that giving a child a weekly allowance of any size before age 11 or 12 makes them think they are being paid for doing chores rather than learning an additional responsibility. This is not recommended. Children should think helping around the house is just part of a daily routine, not a moneymaking proposition.
Responsibility and accountability are very important life skills that will improve the quality of their lives and relationships. By getting involved in chores at an early age, kids are learning about forming successful relationships, teamwork, cooperation and how and when to compromise on an issue. One other important aspect of involving kids in every-day household chores is that it brings the family closer together and augments the feeling that this home is their own and is a safe, warm place to be.
Creating an environment within where your children can be nurtured while being taught some of the responsibilities of caring for the home in which they live is beneficial for the whole family. Instilling these values in your children brings forth a sense of pride in the community as well. The homes in the master-planned communities of Landmark 24 are ideal for growing families. With a wide variety of home and floor plans, you’re sure to find a home that suits your lifestyle where you can share life-long family moments.